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No Author is an Island

February 17, 2022 Sonya Day

I used to love the Timehop app. Just by scrolling through it, I could remember forgotten trips, funny life moments, time with friends and family. Plus, it shows milestones in history, which feeds my curiosity for random information.

But then, it happened. Typos.  

The bane of my grammar fetished existence. I pride myself in being above par with commas, prepositions, and sentence structure. In fact, I’ve earned one job from pointing out a typo on the company paperwork. I never text with acronyms, and I use punctuation. I know the difference between there, their, and they’re.

Yet the typos kept appearing.

Now, I can spot them with ease. Which begs the question: why couldn’t I then? The answer lies in distance.

These little imperfections we create shine brighter with the passage of time. When we create typos, we are often too close to see. It is like looking at a painting. When you are inches from the canvas you see something completely different than if you stand across the room. Time gives written work the across the room perspective.  

Enter the Editors of the world.

Editors provide fresh eyes to see your work from another perspective. This goes beyond nuts and bolts grammar. They can see where your story is falling short. You may see brilliant swirls of color and texture, but they can see the giant chasm of disconnect that section has to the rest of the story. Their fresh perspective enhances your manuscript and highlights those things to which your eyes have grown accustomed. You know that old adage, “two are better than one?” It’s never more true than with editing your manuscript.

I highlight this because I’m flabbergasted by some work currently in print. Just because it has never been easier to publish, doesn’t mean writers should be the only one to touch their manuscript prior to publishing. I have nothing against those who choose the self publishing route. I have everything against those who do so without hiring an outside editor. Can’t afford it? At least put your manuscript in front of a writer’s group. No, your friends don’t count. They love you and don’t really want to hurt your feelings. You need a group of ruthless critics, who value the quality of the finished product above your own emotions. Because, in the end, good writing is what sells, not a writer’s good intentions. 

No author is an island. The best works are those that have many hands in the pot. Don’t believe me? Read the acknowledgements. I’ve come to value the input of others in my work. Even the ones who are the harshest. Usually, their life experiences lend them to seeing new angles or problems. Often, their corrections lead me into a more complex, rich, and beautiful story.

And they catch my typos, so I don’t have to cringe later.

 

Join the conversation. What is your opinion on editing and editors?

In Writing, Editing, thoughts Tags creating
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Short Story - Unknown

June 10, 2021 Sonya Day
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I’ve been remise with my blog as of late. My apologies. You know how life gets crazy and passes you by without your knowing? Yeah, it was something like that, along with a pandemic thrown in. As a piece offering, I’m giving you a short I wrote. I wrote it for a contest where I had to create a story with 300 words or less and include: a comfort food, a song lyric/reference from the 70s, a mountain range, a new year’s resolution, and a horse reference. Can you pick out them all?

Hope you enjoy!

Unknown

“Stay,” he said.

She stuffed in one last box. Metal numbed her fingers as she closed her car’s trunk. She inhaled, drawing in the cold and hardening her resolve.

He sulked, but followed as she strode inside.

On the table, bowls of macaroni and cheese congealed. Crab dotted the surface, trapped in the yellowed paste. She scraped her nail around one chunk, catapulting it free. Jealousy towards the crab overwhelmed her.

He misconstrued the slight uplift of her mouth and embraced her. “Stay.”

She breathed in his scent, woody and warm. Familiar yet foreign. His lips brushed hers, savoring. A tear pooled in her lashes, and the riot within her began anew. She pushed him away before it ripped her in two.

A new year, a new start. She’d sworn it.

His shoulders drooped and his face paled. “Stay,” he murmured. “Please.”

The yearning in his voice choked her, and the tear slid from lash to cheek. She bit her lip. He searched for signs of concession.

Instead, she cut the tether. “We’re superficial.”

“We’re not.”

 “Your code is still symbols on a screen,” she said, “and my Van Gogh is still splotches of paint. We’re everyday aliens, you and I.”

Her finality unleashed his resentment. “Why don’t you come to your senses?” he said. “You’re not getting any younger.”

“I won’t die unknown.”

She grabbed her keys, but paused at the door. “One day, I hope you understand,” she said.

As the Cascades shrank in her rearview mirror, the road flattened and opened before her. Out the window, she spied a mustang, wild and unhindered. Its galloping feet drummed the rhythm of a new day. Pressing her foot against her pedal, she smiled and hurled herself into its dawning.

In Creativity, Writing Tags writing, creating, short stories
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You've Got This

September 19, 2020 Sonya Day

I once experienced an interesting phenomenon. After working diligently for over a year towards one of my goals, I crashed hard. I only had weeks left, but my will power was non-existent. Rather than put in the work, I wanted to marathon watch sitcoms or sleep like a bear in hibernation. The longer I festered in this place, too, the harder it became to pull myself out.

Because guilt sprang up to remind me of my shortcomings.

If you, too, find yourself battling to right your sinking ship of motivation, it is helpful to remember to:

  • Forgive Yourself. No one is perfect. No one. No, not even her/him (you know who I am talking about). Everyone has fallen short of expectations, including their own. Because, somewhere deep inside, we all think we can perform superhuman feats within a very human body. Then, we get tired, or our kid gets sick and needs our attention, or that job we were hoping to land falls through. But, rather than adjust, we keep plowing forward, thinking we can still accomplish the outlandish things we couldn’t even do without life butting in. So, when falling short of aspirations, forgive yourself, because you, my friend, are human.
     

  • Remind yourself of your wonderful qualities. Guilt has a way of dragging us through the mud until we no longer recognize ourselves. When this happens, we begin to believe lies. Take a moment and focus on the truth. What do you love about you? What do others love about you? There is good in every person, so keep wiping away the mud until you find the treasure.
     

  • Get back on the horse. Don’t give up after a setback. Setbacks may make your goals take longer, but if you get back to work, you will eventually attain them. But you are guaranteed to miss them if you don’t even try. Take the clean slate your setback created and see it as possibility, instead of challenge. Whatever it is you are aiming for, fill in this sentence: “Today is a great day to ___________.” Today is a great day to write another chapter on my book. Today is a great day to finish that painting. Today is a great day to polish my website. Today is a great day to try out that MeetUp. Today is a great day to get back onto that horse and charge on toward the finish.

What tips and advice do you have for the uninspired, tired, or motivationally challenged? 

In Life Lessons Tags writing, creating, attitude, motivation
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Change is A-Comin'

January 7, 2020 Sonya Day

As we welcome in a new season, I’ve been contemplating change. After all, that’s what a new season is: change. What do I love about the fall and what makes me want summer to last forever? Here’s what I came up with:

Things I love about fall:
     • Boots and scarves
     • The many colors of leaves
     • Cooler weather
     • Tea and comfy blankets
     • Rain
     • Fires in the fireplace
     • School supplies
     • It always feels like a new season of adventures
     • Pumpkin everything (except, ironically, pumpkin spice lattes)

Things I don’t like about fall:
     • Pretty much everything Halloween
     • The emphasis on creepy crawlies and death
      • The dying green of trees
     • No more local farmers markets
     • Horror flick invasion
     • The eternal gray skies
     • Cabin fever, thanks to the rain

It’s funny how there’s always something negative about change. Conversely, you can always find something positive about change, if you look hard enough. Take, for instance, my displeasure with Halloween. Orange is my least favorite color, I don’t like horror or creepy things, and I hate that many use it as an excuse to dress slutty. Yet I love the excitement of a child selecting the perfect costume, I love almost all things pumpkin, and I adore that the world cools down and I can don my favorite boots and scarf. Good and bad are interwoven throughout the changes of life. The negative provides opportunity for empathy within us, and the positive, gratefulness. But which do you allow to influence your attitude about change? It’s all about what you choose to focus on. I find that, when I let go of what I don’t like and focus on what I do, I always enjoy change. Change doesn’t have to be scary. It doesn’t have to be torture. It’s all about attitude. Abraham Lincoln said, “When you look for the bad in mankind, expecting to find it, you surely will.” I believe that is true about change. You get what you expect.

How do you feel about change and what do you love about fall?

In Life Lessons Tags fall, writing, attitude, focus
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Pee on Your Writing

October 21, 2019 Sonya Day
Walter, the fuzz bucket, himself

Walter, the fuzz bucket, himself

As soon as I walk in the door, the begging starts. A blur of white fuzz and wagging tail, Walter flitters from my feet to wherever he thinks I’m headed and back again. I linger too long by the entry, or connect my earphones to my phone, and the jumping starts.

He knows.

After a slight wrestling match to attach a leash, we head to the great outdoors. In our neighborhood is a large park, consisting of walking trails and tons of green. Breaking the rules (Shh! Don’t tell!), I let Walter roam free. He adores it. He explores everywhere with excitement; a newborn experiencing sensations for the first time, despite the countless visits we’ve made.

And everywhere he goes, he pees.

It struck me on our last walk that this is how writing should be. With each new story, every time we touch our fingers to our laptops (or take pen to paper), we should approach as a newborn. Our imaginations are made to be explored and we should never approach the world of our stories expecting. If we expect something to happen, we will force it, contrive it. If we go in with a game plan, without the leniency to change and explore possibilities, our words will become trite.

We go to the same park, but Walter sees it afresh. This trip had me thinking maybe we would craft better stories if we do the same. Go to the worlds we created, but see them with new eyes.

And then pee everywhere.

Explore worlds, but then leave our mark. Make it ours. It is an old adage that no story is new. Everything there is to tell has been told a million times. But not by you. Not by me. We create something new when we make it ours. We pee all over the plot lines and character motivations, the subtext and dialogue, and suddenly we have something unique.

We have a compelling story.

As you are sitting at your laptop (or with your pen and paper) this week, try looking with fresh eyes on your writing. Throw out all the preconceived notions, attitudes, and beliefs. Find something afresh that thrills you, moves you, floors you. 

Create with the wonder and excitement of the newly born and leave your mark all over it.

Exploring

Exploring

In Creativity, Writing Tags creating, writing, pets
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